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Mates and Friends

Post by Maureen K Clifford » Mon Apr 16, 2012 8:16 am

An old one that Terry's poem and Bob's comment reminded me of -





Mates and Friends.

Mates I’ve got a plenty – true friends I’ve but a few
and they’ve been friends for many years now they are older too.
My best friend is a schoolmate and we go back fifty years
we’ve shared a lot of laughter but we’ve shed a lot of tears.

Two mates who once were partners and I thought my closest friends
proved not to be, true colours showed. They’re not here at the end.
All of the best years wasted on those dreams that came to nought
No good in being bitter, just move on once you’ve got out.

My family are good mates and there’s none that I love more
We rarely have an argument and each one is there for
the others if they’re needed and it’s been that way for years
but as family members pass on, one more good friend disappears.

I’ve had neighbours who were good mates, at least until you leave,
then the friendship seems to dwindle. That’s a fact that I perceive.
And I’d workmates who were good mates – side by side we’d worked for years
but retirement makes a difference. All is not as it appears.

So my cyber mates I value and they’re all across the world
and at least the interests that we share bring me riches untold.
Some I’ve met in person and I hope that I’ll meet more,
for friends are always welcome should they be passing my door.

But in truth I’ve always found in life that my very best mate
has always been four legged. They sit waiting at the gate.
They ask for nothing, expect less and so much love they share
so now number eleven and twelve are two for whom I care.

And when their time is up, if I outlive them which I might
another pair of unloved souls will take their place at night.
Deep in my heart, alongside ten, I’ll hold this precious pair.
but now my best mates, loved to bits, are right beside my chair.

Maureen Clifford ©
Lord Byron said, ‘nobody need want a friend who can get a dog.’
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Re: Mates and Friends

Post by DollyDot » Mon Apr 16, 2012 8:27 am

Hiya Maureen

Nice poem. I can relate to it especially
I’ve had neighbours who were good mates, at least until you leave,
and
My best friend is a schoolmate and we go back fifty years
.
I have couple of old mates one goes back 60 years, that is not counting my brothers and sisters of course who are also great mates.

I enjoyed your poem.

DD

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Post by Dennis N O'Brien » Mon Apr 23, 2012 8:01 am

We've moved around a lot so left friends behind and eventually lost touch with most (wrote a poem about it - might post one day). Still it is true that we tend to have a lot of acquaintances during our lives but few true friends. Good poem Maureen.

Heather

Re: Mates and Friends

Post by Heather » Mon Apr 23, 2012 7:00 pm

Beautiful Maureen. Give 'em a pat for me. :)

Heather :)

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Re: Mates and Friends

Post by Maureen K Clifford » Mon Apr 23, 2012 8:44 pm

Hello Aunty Heather - thanks for the pats

from M and E ;) :D
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Re: Mates and Friends

Post by Heather » Mon Apr 23, 2012 8:52 pm

:D

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Re: Mates and Friends

Post by Irene » Mon Apr 23, 2012 10:46 pm

Great poem Maureen - great mates, are our animals!!
We have to put our old dog down soon - probably next week - and it just won't be the same without him.
He is such a character, and even now, greets us with so much enthusiasm when we get home.

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Re: Mates and Friends

Post by Bob Pacey » Tue Apr 24, 2012 6:09 am

oh thats so sad Irene.

Maureen knows how i feel about my dogs , there have been a few over the years and each one has enhanced my life in some way as they chose to spend their time with me.


I have my favourites of course but they all give a lot more than they recieve.


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Post by Maureen K Clifford » Tue Apr 24, 2012 8:42 am

Irene that is a terrible prospect to have to deal with - and yet you say he is full of enthusiasm when you come home so he obviously still has a love of life. Is he very sick and in pain? Can nothing be done for him? I am getting terrific results managing Mahalias issues with homeopathic treatment from a vet in North Perth WA who sends the products to me. Had I not seen such a change in her in 3 days of treatment I would never have believed it.

6 weeks after her major op last winter I was thinking I had made a mistake and would have to do what your are talking about. She was depressed and really struggling to even walk and now she runs around like a 2 year old but not for as long. She was on an opium derivative for pain but it was doing awful things to her liver - I have her off all of that type of medication now - just the Hampl drops and fish oil tablets

The group are called HAMPL -

www.hample.com.au

and I would absolutely advise you unless there is no hope for your mate to go and have a look at their site, you can speak to the vet on line and they are such helpful people - I only recommend things that really work and you know how I am with the girls. These people IMO are bloody miracle workers.

Good luck

Maureen
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Re: Mates and Friends

Post by Irene » Tue Apr 24, 2012 10:55 am

Thanks Bob and Maureen - unfortunately, there is not a lot we can do now for him, as he has a large bone tumour on his back hock that has eaten away most of the bone - it is the tumour that is holding his leg together.
We have him on strong painkillers at the moment because we went away for easter the day after he was diagnosed and we wanted to just give him a little more time at home, but you can see it gettting bigger, and he is starting to show more signs of pain, albeit he stills gets so excited to see us. It is a tumour that will metastasize, if it hasn't already, given the extent of it.
Despite his size, he is one of the gentlest dogs we have ever had, and an absolute character that everyone loves. (He's the dog in my avatar, with Lila!)

The only option they gave us was amputation, but he is a big, older dog who already has arthritis quite badly, and I don't feel he would cope well with that.
They had been treating him with injections for his arthritis just recently, but we had him xrayed when it continued to get bigger.

I will check out that site Maureen - sounds like a wonderful site, and it may well have been useful for his arthritis, which has been troubling him for a number of years now. We have another dog who has a skin condition, so will also check out what they have for that.

Catchya
IRene
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